Hector
I wasn’t exactly one of them, but I totally understood thumbsuckers. Fairly sure I haven’t made this confession here before, but I used to suck my curled left forefinger long after it was appropriate...
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So, here I am. Eldest son of two people who died in 2008—Mom in the spring, Dad in the fall. And while I realize I’m not the only person in the world to ever have dearly loved people die on them,...
View ArticleBackyard Incinerator
Death, then fire. That’s how my parents went out of this world. And likely I will too. It’s something I really try not to think about: how my earthly remains will be disposed of. And for good reason....
View ArticleFacing Goliath
“I cannot go in these,” David said to Saul, “Because I am not used to them.” —1 Samuel 17 Sunday, 5:00 p.m., Nov. 9, 2008: My girlfriend at the time, AJ, and I attended worship service at House of...
View ArticleAtonement
I got curious. Not like “curious strange” (although you might think so), but curious like “I’m wondering about…” Always a positive sign of my mental health. As I was wandering around the locker room...
View ArticleWedding Bell Blues
My heart is just a blood-soaked pothole in someone’s back alley. Ah, love. It’s a many-mansplain’ed thing. Seriously, I’ve got nothing constructive to say about the institution of marriage. Or so I...
View ArticleMy So-Called Decade
[Dear readers: I’m back from a hiatus in June due to a job transition and shake up that I’m happy to report turned out for the best. But it took a lot of my attention away from writing. I’m overjoyed...
View ArticleJackie’s Boys
[Dear reader-friends: I’m back from a too-long hiatus over the summer of 2018, where I changed jobs and took a break from my planned 1990s posts here. It being the tenth anniversary of my parents’...
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